About a week ago I was sent an e-mail with a commentary by a woman named Pam Atherton. This was the first time I read something of this nature and it really made me think.
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The worst kind of sexism is the kind that goes around masquerading as
progressive equality. We are seeing this kind of sexism in the choices
being made this year in the Presidential race.
Anyone who knows me knows that I am a fierce defender of women's rights
and the need for equality in the work place. But the very first thought
and emotion that passed through my head and heart when I heard that
Sarah Palin was the choice of John McCain for Vice-President was that I
was insulted.
Insulted.
Because it was very obvious that she was chosen BECAUSE she was a woman,
not because she was the best person for the job. She was chosen because
of the belief that a woman will vote for a woman, no matter what her
qualifications, or lack of them.
That's even more insulting.
As a broadcaster, I actively stay away from politics. It's not my
bailiwick and there are other talking heads far more experienced than I
am to discuss these complex issues in depth. But the choice of Sarah
Palin is not a matter of politics. It is sexism. Bias. And it's
downright demeaning.
Would Sarah Palin even be on the Republican ticket if Hillary had been
in the number two spot on the Dem's ticket? I think not. Republican
strategists have been quoted as saying that they are hoping that Palin
will pull in disgruntled Hillary voters... BECAUSE she's a woman.
Wow. How many more ways can you call me stupid?
Hillary voters are typically pro-choice and against discrimination of
gays. Not exactly the type that swarm in Palin's social circle.
And are women on the whole so dog-gone ignorant that you strategists
think we don't care about qualifications? That because Palin has 5 kids
and carried her Down's Syndrome baby to full term, that we're not going
to check on whether she has the necessary skills to be the number two
(and maybe number one, considering McCain's age and health issues)
leader of this great nation? You know, what kind of experience or
education she might have in global economics, foreign policy, healthcare
reform... those silly little things?
Here's what I know. If I'm going to have surgery, I check into the
credentials of the doctor who is going to be in the operating room. I
ask around. I call the medical society. I talk to other doctors. I don't
just pick the guy/gal who seems the nicest at the grocery store, goes to
my church, or looks great in scrubs. No, I want the doctor who has the
best success rate for the surgery. My life is too important.
The future of this country is too important.
We women should not be offered positions we're not qualified for, just
BECAUSE we are women, when there are more qualified people for the
positions (and there are many other female Republicans who are far more
experienced, qualified and deserving of the VP nod.) The future of this
nation, the future for our children, is too important.
Correspondingly, if a male counterpart is heavily scrutinized for his
beliefs, ideals and actions, then a woman should be scrutinized the same
way. We shouldn't get thrown softball pitches if we're playing in a
hardball game. That's sexism.
So it insults me again when McCain and others say "Leave this woman
alone." Why? BECAUSE she's a woman? If the kitchen's too hot, baby...
get on out.
And before you get your panties all in a twist and say "Oh, it's all
just Democratic rhetoric again," note this: I am not a hardcore
political person for one party or the other. I have voted for
Republicans and I have voted for Democrats. I have written for and
guided campaigns for both sides of the political coin. I have always
voted for the best candidate (in my opinion), whatever their political
affiliation. So let's be clear... this is not about politics. It's about
sexism.
I have nothing personal against Sarah Palin. I don't know her. But I
have lived in Alaska. And I do know how small Wasilla is. (about 7,000
people and a couple of dozen moose). And I do know what it's like to run
a small business as well as a medium-size business. And I can tell
you... it ain't the same. And Alaska, as any Alaskan will tell you, is
not like the "lower 48."
I spent two days scouring the internet, reading everything people had to
say about McCain's choice for VP, both pro and con. Let's disregard what
many feel is an eye-opening vision of this potential president vis a vis
his choice of VP: A man whose brashness and recklessness is only
magnified by the lack of vetting of his running mate (my God, what other
decisions will he make so hastily, with so little input from advisors
and with so little research?)
I read everything that was available about Sarah Palin and her choices,
both personal and on government issues. (After all, she has little "big"
government experience, so we can learn about her decision-making style
by her personal choices. I encourage you to draw your own conclusions in
that arena).
Here is what women said:
--Women, in particular, are insulted with McCain's pick of a woman who
is so unfit for the job and who is an "extreme" social conservative.
--They are priming the pump by claiming Biden needs to "be careful not
to bully Palin" in the debate...oh good grief! As a woman I am stunned
by the patronizing Republicans. Do they think we're completely stupid?
--Nobody went easy on Hillary...she bested most of the guys and if Palin
wants to be in the big leagues she'll have to learn to take a punch.
--How dare the Republicans put up a woman who, had she been a man would
still be unknown...they would never have considered a man as poorly
qualified as Palin. They and she have done more to set back women's
standing than anyone!
A friend of mine asked me at dinner tonight, "How can you call yourself
a supporter of women's right when you feel this way about Palin?"
It's BECAUSE I believe in equality and women's rights that I feel this
way about the choice of Palin. Please choose the best PERSON for the
job. Don't insult or demean us by choosing just any ol' gal to put on
the ticket because you think we can't tell one woman from another. A
woman is not a woman is not a woman.
Just ask yourself this one question... If the Governor of Alaska's name
was Steve Palin... would he be on the ticket?
